Friday, April 26, 2019

Imprint




I stare at where we once sat
Under the canopy
Enveloped in each’s other arms
Immerse in churning qualms

As summer rain wets our lips
In anticipation of our first kiss
We sat and reminisce of happier times
Laughing with green glittered eyes
Wondering why this cannot be our eternity

Love, laugh and play
As fairies in a midsummer day
Flitting in a space of perpetual continuity
But scatting words curbed our promiscuity
That reminded us of how things became coarse
Why we cannot be nothing more than a flashback
Cautioning us never to reverse

Our souls bare and beastly
Are torn when we reveal briefly
The essence of our being
That’s mangled but glimmers sweetly
That lures weary travelers
To rest and take hearth
But chases away once the flame is swallow
Back into the earth

Despite the want to love
We wonder if it is better up above
Beyond the canopy of our green stars
Where summer rain drips
Coating our longing lips

Alas a choice was made
The stump lays bare
Except an imprint
That we were once there
And a canopy of green stars
That ceases to glimmer forevermore






You See Me!



You see me
Beyond the makeup, beautiful clothes and perfectionist-put-together façade. Words could drip from my weary tongue but you caught before a drop fell because you knew.
It was not because I was an open book but it was that glimmer, an inner shine that spoke an impermissible story that you gravitated towards. It spoke of pain, successes, sins, disappointments and loves that I was too ashamed to admit but you fell in love with
You seeing me
Allowed me to see your wonderfulness and ugliness, the complexities that made up your human, your soul. It drew me to lands of possibilities, of hopes that once denigrated in the darkness of despair but now shining brightly at noon’s day
Us seeing one another
Gave testament to things that were lost and now were found. It helps us mature and make hard choices that lead us to stop seeing you and
You seeing me

Strong Black Woman- posted June 12, 2018



“You’re a strong Black Woman!”
People would say
as they watch her carry
weighty bags like an overworked mule

The title, which is spoken so
fluidly like a noble title
scalds hotly like molten lava
on the smoothness of her thighs

Thighs which are caressed at night
through throes of midnight passion
that leaves the residue
that whelps late at night
for milk, she cannot provide

She toils day and night in hopes
of respite by noon’s day
balancing two or three jobs
that barely pays

At the edge of her bed
her phone glows
in anticipation of his visit
She rests in his arms
searching for solace that
can’t be found

Love he keeps
hidden in the boroughs
of El Dorado
He sprinkles upon her eyes
intermittent rewards that will
keep her at bay
and waiting eagerly for more

In the meantime, she’ll toil
scrap
bleed
and keep the bed warm for when
he’ll need a place to deposit his seed
Because she’s a strong Black woman

The Psychology of Sub-Humanism- Posted on June 15, 2018



On May 23rd, an African American man named Robert Johnson was assaulted in Mesa, Arizona. A one-minute clip that went viral on social media shows Mr. Johnson cornered in the hallway of an apartment complex being pummeled by punches from several armed police officers. The victim, apparently unarmed, compliantly received the blows until he slid to the floor, unconscious.
Reports like these are not uncommon. It has become second nature to witness innocent persons being assaulted and even kill for ‘appearing dangerous.’ What is the psychology that fuels this paranoia to attack without remorse or recourse and find cause to deem it right?
Since man is considered an animal, one of the basic tenets of survival is that if one feels in danger their fight or flight responds. We either run away from the threat or we fight. From a psycho-emotional perspective, a person may express unaddressed trauma and pain either internally or externally. The person who suffers silently versus the person who shares his/her misery to achieve shared company typically personifies those concepts.
I believe that in order for a person to justify the harming of others without proper recourse; there must be a collective agreement to objectify or dehumanize a group, race, sex, gender or sexual orientation. Once this has been settled, other components will easily fall into place.
First, there has to be a cultural identifier in place to define what situations it is appropriate to exploit, manipulate or abuse another without public/judicial retribution. For example, a prostitute being ganged raped by five men may not be considered in the eyes of the populace a crime. Why? Culturally, a prostitute, despite being human, is defined as an object, a commodity for sale. Her body is for purchase to be used whatever the purchaser wishes. Therefore, if she happens to be sexually assaulted, as a commodity for public consumption, we are culturally conditioned to be apathetic.
Second, we create cultural laws that accommodate the majority who chooses to react inhumanely towards the innocent minorities. A popular example is the Trayvon Martin case. Trayvon, a 17-year-old boy was killed by George Zimmerman because he appeared threatening. What made him look threatening was a hoodie that he wore to make a trip to a corner store. Mr. Zimmerman was acquitted of his crime under the Stand Your Ground statute.
Dog whistle terminology coupled with racist stereotypes is a toxic marriage that the ignorant will use to justify actions that are fueled by a primal reaction that in many instances can be irrational: fear. If man’s basic reaction to a threat is fight or flight, what better way to overstimulate that mechanism by constantly reminding a certain group of people that they are “threatened” by a group “different” from them?
How many times have we seen in the news, reporters covering the murder of another innocent person identify them as a thug, being non-compliant, resisting arrest or an instigator, being part of a gang, smoked marijuana, had a criminal record and all of the above?
We have created a judicial platform that is based upon a rubric of dependent and independent variables that can be changed over time, depending on the whim of the dominant. Today, it is acceptable to kill a Black man because he appeared dangerous (e.g. wore a hoodie, appearing threatening, was not responsive to officer’s orders). Next, it will be considered acceptable to harm someone for making an offensive comment online.
The scary thing about this form of justice is that not only Black people are in danger but anyone who can be easily exploited in this society. The poor, homeless, women, children, the blue-collar worker or merely the voiceless; there are stereotypes tied to each of us that can give the world justification to harm us with no recourse or hesitation. The only fault that we can exercise is being in the wrong place, at the wrong time which we can’t control unless we are clairvoyant.
It is important to be mindful to not entertain stereotypes that reinforce irrational fears, respond to dog whistle terminology that promotes division and aversion and creates rationales to validate the dehumanization of some over others. The difference is an illusion that only support the powerful and keep the minority distracted. Being mindful of these distractions can help prevent unnecessary killings and the dehumanization of individuals.

Death by Tweet- posted on July 6, 2018


The infamous “Permit Patty” scandal reeked the internet. The short clip of Allison Ethel, the woman dubbed “Permit Patty” was seen calling the police to report an 8-year-old girl selling water in front of her apartment complex. It did not take long for the world to lash out, sending hateful messages including death threats.
Ms. Ethel went on the TODAY show on June 25th crying on air about the harassment she has received since that incident and implored that it was an innocent mistake. According to her, there was loud talking taking place outside of her unit which was caused by the 8-year old’s mother. When she asked for them to quiet down (because it was not the first time), she was ignored which led to the spat match. Ms. Ethel claims that her actions were not permeated through racist motives; she just wanted quiet.
Now, we can agree that Ms. Ethel’s celerity to contact the police against an 8-year-old, Black girl was immature and poorly calculated particularly with the brewing police violence against black people (which includes black youth). However, I cannot help but wonder if our response is appropriate.
The internet/world became the judge, jury, and executioner and condemned this woman to face retribution which affected her home life, career and relationships. Was this a fair and judicious response to a person whom if the camera phone was not operational, we may have never known her ‘sins’?
This incident reminds me of a Black Mirror episode called “Hated in the Nation’. The show focused on a veteran detective and her tech-savvy apprentice as they investigate a series of unsolved murders that are correlated to a hashtag, #Deathto which allows the public to vote for the ‘shittest person’ to die.
The creator of the hashtag made a video called “Game of consequences” which explains that each day, the person that is subject of the most #Deathto tweets will be killed. The deadliest thing about this ‘game’ is that each person who votes are kept anonymous and they are spared from being recognized for their affiliation to the murder of an innocent person.
In the show, the people who were selected to be killed were antagonists, the politically incorrect individuals who chose to go against the grain and speak out against the majority. I know what many of you are thinking, “Permit Patty” is not a revolutionary. She is a tripped-out woman, drunk on white privilege. This may be true. However, she may also be a woman who was a victim of barraging noise outside of her window and chose to speak up although it may appear inappropriate and salty to accost a mom with her kid especially with her being white and the kid being Black.
However, due to the fact that we have one side of the story, the side that complements the anger and exhaustion of police brutality against blacks and the over-exhaust use of white privilege in exchange for the endangerment of Black people; it was easy to conclude that she was in the wrong. There was no need to hear her side. And therefore, we damned her as a social pariah, condemning her to insult, assault and harassment because of one polarized 45-second clip.
There is a saying that art mimics nature but it appears that life mimics art. I believe that ‘Hated in the Nation’ is a cautionary tale of what will happen if we condemn and prosecute blindly without knowing the full story and understanding the full ramifications of how it may affect one’s life.
I am not saying that this woman should not be reprimanded for her actions. But as we seek grace and mercy for our sins, sins that we commit behind closed doors and not fear the wrath of the populace. I believe those same mercies should be given those of equal standing unless the crime speaks otherwise.

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